"Have you noticed a theme during this 2008 Presidential election? Senator Obama is winning with a message of hope and inspiration and that we must have a new kind of politics in America. Governor Huckebee stated in his Iowa acceptance speech that political leaders must move from "Me to We" which was the title of my September, 2006 newsletter. The source of my hopeful attitude about the future of politics has relied on the awakening of citizens who are fed up with the politics of fear and destruction. The new era of political leadership has begun!" ~Donna Zajonc
A calling is a desire to give. A craving is a desire to get.
A calling is our opportunity to share our unique contributions and blessings with others. A craving is a fear that there is "not enough," a hole that we must fill. A calling arises naturally from our sense of completeness. A craving is a need to get because we are incomplete.
A calling is a conscious awareness of our wholeness, spurring us to acts of spontaneous generosity. We know that by responding to our personal calling, by sharing our gifts in full, we encourage others to reveal their own greatness. Conversely, a craving is a nagging sense of lack, an unconscious reaction to an imagined deficit that demands to be overcome.
If we as public servants live with a craving to serve, we are in the grip many of the destructive byproducts of addiction may arise in us: fear, manipulation, control, anger, jealousy and excessive pride—the hallmarks of self-defeating behavior. Housing such toxic emotions, we become unable to listen to others. Our political approach turns mean-spirited as our cravings gradually begin to run our lives for us. We may become so delusional that we believe we are "destined to serve," and that someone on high has anointed our time in office. Our grandiosity grows, and we move into a full, self-centered power grab—but all in the name of serving the people!
The seductive nature of public life, whether in the corporate world or in the arenas of sports and entertainment, our cravings may be fed by hobnobbing with the rich and powerful. Hovering lobbyists, persons of privilege bidding for our attention, adoring staff, as well as plenty of alcohol and other drugs, all combine to make the public leader's life fertile ground for cravings and addictions.
Even healthy people, who enter public life with their cravings under control, often find that its pressures and temptations tend to magnify their cravings, sometimes even igniting full-blown addictions. As the cycle of need unfolds, we work desperately to retain our power, doing whatever it takes to ensure our re-election or maintaining our powerful public position. Before we know it, we're living an unconscious, mostly unfulfilling life grounded in selfish desires rather than higher motives.
When we are called to service we become aware of our passions and our actions unfold with ease and joy. Colossal tasks become simple. We glow with excitement that attracts others to join our vision. By relinquishing attachments that feed our cravings we surrender to higher motives---therein lies the true satisfaction of living our calling!
If you are in public service position now, take time to ask yourself whether you are leading from a place of wholeness or incompleteness. Do you need the adoration of voters or the fame that may come from public life? Only you know your true motivations and what is underneath your desire to serve.
During this 2008 election cycle, listen carefully to the language and motivations of those running for office. As you listen, attempt to distinguish between whether their desire to serve is a calling or a craving. Let's all hope and pray that more leaders are stepping forward who see their time in public life as a true calling.